Recently saw an anonymous quote: "Somedays just aren't worth chewing through the leather restraints."
We all have restraints in our lives: social, legal, emotional, simple habits. If you are trying to live a life that is anything more than a daily slog to the mines you are going to buck up against the restraints. And I'll have to agree with the quote....sometimes.
But, most days are worth chewing through the restraint. You might not like what you find, but at least you are trying (I mean, hey, it takes some doing to chew through leather).
One of the lessons you might learn is that some of the restraints are there for a reason. And it's a reason you didn't understand until you chewed through it. The difficult part is that leather tastes terrible; but maybe there's a reason for that.