The devotional I get in my email every morning said today, “It’s not about you.”
My first thought was, “Well, that sounds nice, but it better be about you to begin with.”
If you aren’t taking care of yourself it’s often the case that no one else will.
And go ahead and understand that there will be people who believe that you are selfish when you're taking care of yourself.
As my mother used to say when I’d head out the door, “You take care of you.”